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“So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”

Matthew 19:6

Welcome to First 5 Ministry at St. Monica Catholic Church. The First 5 Ministry is a community of couples in their first 5 years of marriage. 

Our mission is to help build the foundation for lifelong, life-giving marriages. By focusing on supporting couples in their first five years of marriage with the tools they need to build spiritually fulfilling marriages, we hope to strengthen all marriages across the St. Monica community and beyond. Ultimately, our vision is to help couples help each other get to heaven.

Through First 5, you and your spouse will be able to build on the lessons you learned during marriage preparation and share in the celebrations of your marriage. The first 5 years of marriage are full of new adventures and joyful times, but they can also be challenging in many ways we do not expect. We want to serve you and your spouse in this ministry to build community, share experiences, and celebrate God’s love for all of us. 

To strengthen the foundation of your marriage, the First 5 Ministry has three core areas of focus:  building fellowship with other couples, offering marriage formation, and facilitating spiritual growth. We offer this through a variety of activities including social events, speaker presentations, spiritual activities, and community service. 

Please email us at  with any questions. 

About us:

St. Monica is a community blessed to prepare 150-200 couples for marriage every year.  Our goal isn’t just to get couples married but to help them have great marriages. To that end, we saw the importance of continuing to help couples build upon the foundation they’ve created up to their wedding day.

The First 5 ministry was originally formed in 2018. While COVID kept us away for a while, the ministry is excited to re-launch in January 2023. A team of young married couples and a professional coordinator leads us. Our meetings and events are actively being planned for 2023, and we are excited to hear more about how we can best serve your marriage. Here are some things to think about as you get connected with First 5: 

• How could this ministry benefit us in our own marriage?
• What are our needs in our first five years of marriage?
• How can we best serve other couples through this ministry? 

Upcoming Events:  

March: Marriage Madness! Event

Sunday, March 5, 2023, following 5:30 p.m. Mass.
Grand Pavilion, St. Monica

• Join us for our March First 5 event where we invite three couples to a panel to discuss conflict communication, finances, and Q&A.
• Free Food and Drink
• RSVP is greatly appreciated for couples and required for anyone needing childcare ($10/child)

Click HERE to RSVP

March: Stations of the Cross 

Friday, March 24, 2023, at 7pm
Church and Grand Pavilion, St. Monica

• Join the First 5 Ministry for Stations of the Cross on Friday March 24th.
• Fish Fry dinner will be served in the Grand Pavillion afterward. 

April: Service Event 

Saturday, April 29, 2023 

Off-site 

• Mark your calendars for our April First 5 event-- this time focused on service!
• Join us for a community service activity & brunch together afterward in Santa Monica. 
• Stay tuned for more details! 

Past Events:  

February: Event

Saturday, February 11th and Sunday, February 12, 2023
Church and Grand Patio, St. Monica

• During and after Masses the weekend of Feb 11/12, we celebrated World Marriage Day with a vow renewal, a special marriage blessing for all couples, and coffee & donuts with the First 5 Ministry team. 

January: Launch Event

Sunday, January 29, 2023, following 5:30 p.m. Mass–8:30 p.m.
Grand Pavilion, St. Monica

• Learned about the First 5 Ministry
• Introduced the leadership team and history
• Met other young couples in our community
• Discussed our marriage vision for 2023

Contact the Team:

“So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”

Matthew 19:6

 

Welcome to First 5 Ministry at St. Monica Catholic Church. The First 5 Ministry is a community of couples in their first 5 years of marriage. 

 

Our mission is to help build the foundation for lifelong, life-giving marriages. By focusing on supporting couples in their first five years of marriage with the tools they need to build spiritually fulfilling marriages, we hope to strengthen all marriages across the St. Monica community and beyond. Ultimately, our vision is to help couples help each other get to heaven.

 

Through First 5, you and your spouse will be able to build on the lessons you learned during marriage preparation and share in the celebrations of your marriage. The first 5 years of marriage are full of new adventures and joyful times, but they can also be challenging in many ways we do not expect. We want to serve you and your spouse in this ministry to build community, share experiences, and celebrate God’s love for all of us. 

 

To strengthen the foundation of your marriage, the First 5 Ministry has three core areas of focus:  building fellowship with other couples, offering marriage formation, and facilitating spiritual growth. We offer this through a variety of activities including social events, speaker presentations, spiritual activities, and community service. 

 

Please email us at  with any questions. 

 

About us:

St. Monica is a community blessed to prepare 150-200 couples for marriage every year.  Our goal isn’t just to get couples married but to help them have great marriages. To that end, we saw the importance of continuing to help couples build upon the foundation they’ve created up to their wedding day.

 

The First 5 ministry was originally formed in 2018. While COVID kept us away for a while, the ministry is excited to re-launch in January 2023. A team of young married couples and a professional coordinator leads us. Our meetings and events are actively being planned for 2023, and we are excited to hear more about how we can best serve your marriage. Here are some things to think about as you get connected with First 5: 

• How could this ministry benefit us in our own marriage?
• What are our needs in our first five years of marriage?
• How can we best serve other couples through this ministry? 

 

Upcoming Events:  

March: Marriage Madness! Event

Sunday, March 5, 2023, following 5:30 p.m. Mass.
Grand Pavilion, St. Monica

• Join us for our March First 5 event where we invite three couples to a panel to discuss conflict communication, finances, and Q&A.
• Free Food and Drink
• RSVP is greatly appreciated for couples and required for anyone needing childcare ($10/child)

 

Click HERE to RSVP

 

 

 

 

March: Stations of the Cross 

Friday, March 24, 2023, at 7pm
Church and Grand Pavilion, St. Monica

• Join the First 5 Ministry for Stations of the Cross on Friday March 24th.
• Fish Fry dinner will be served in the Grand Pavillion afterward. 

 

April: Service Event 

Saturday, April 29, 2023 

Off-site 

• Mark your calendars for our April First 5 event-- this time focused on service!
• Join us for a community service activity & brunch together afterward in Santa Monica. 
• Stay tuned for more details! 

 

Past Events:  

February: Event

Saturday, February 11th and Sunday, February 12, 2023
Church and Grand Patio, St. Monica

• During and after Masses the weekend of Feb 11/12, we celebrated World Marriage Day with a vow renewal, a special marriage blessing for all couples, and coffee & donuts with the First 5 Ministry team. 

 

 

January: Launch Event

Sunday, January 29, 2023, following 5:30 p.m. Mass–8:30 p.m.
Grand Pavilion, St. Monica

• Learned about the First 5 Ministry
• Introduced the leadership team and history
• Met other young couples in our community
• Discussed our marriage vision for 2023

 

Meet the Team

Dr. Michael DiPaolo (Facilitator)

Dr. D is a clinical psychologist and Imago Relationship Therapist in private practice in West Los Angeles.  A proud graduate of Notre Dame, Dr. D has helped prepare over 1500 couples for marriage in the Archdiocese of Los Angeles. Perhaps most importantly, Dr. D met his wife, Jennie, in young adult ministry at St. Monica.  They have been married since 1999 and have three wonderful children and a hyperactive dog.

 

Flip Sanchez & Debora Milioni (Advisors)

 

Gabe & Jenny Haggard

Gabe (a LA native) and Jenny (a Midwesterner) met while volunteering at St. Monica. They got engaged in July 2020, and Monsignor Torgerson married them in October 2021 in Jenny’s hometown of Indianapolis, IN. Gabe and Jenny happily enjoy married life and are thrilled to be a part of the First 5 team. When they’re not working or volunteering, they enjoy traveling, spending time outside, hosting parties, and trying the latest new restaurants. 

 

Keith Moynihan & Kristi Wisniewski Moynihan

Keith and Kristi met during Freshman year at the University of Alabama. After a year and a half of friendship, Kristi agreed to a first date. Ten years of dating/engagement and eight states later, they were finally married in June 2021. They enjoy cooking and cheering on the Crimson Tide football team together.  

 

Gabriel & Katie Sayegh

Katie & Gabriel met while living and working in Detroit in August of 2016 and bonded over Disney, music, and their love of adventures. They quickly uncovered they would enjoy living closer to their families in LA, so they made that happen a year later. They got engaged in May 2019 on the beach in Santa Monica and were married at St. Monica’s by Msgr Torgerson in August of 2021. They love traveling together, volunteering at St. Monica's, and trying new food and wine anywhere they can. 

 

Clayton & Emily Smith

Clayton and Emily first met in Washington, DC, in 2017. They moved to Los Angeles in 2019, adopted a German Shepherd-Husky mix, and began working at UCLA. They married at St. Monica in July 2021 and are excited to help lead this ministry. For fun, Emily and Clayton love camping, trying new foods, and cheering on the Fighting Irish. 

 

Chris Lill & Kelly Brooks

Chris and Kelly met online in 2020 during the pandemic. They were engaged 10 months later and can’t wait to be married at St. Monica by Monsignor Torgerson in May of 2023!  Chris and Kelly love raising their Goldendoodle, Melvin. They also enjoy traveling, spending time at their home in Big Bear Lake, watching sports and movies, spending time with friends and family, and tasting beer wherever they go. 

 

FAQs

• Is there an age restriction to join First 5? 
  • No, we welcome couples of all ages!
• Do we have to have gotten married at St. Monica Catholic Church?
  • No, we welcome any couples in their first 5 years of marriage to join the ministry. 
• Who can we contact with questions?
  • Please email us at  with any questions. 
• Can I bring my children to the First 5 events?
  • Yes! We will have babysitting available for you during many of our events. If you will need childcare, advanced registration is required. Please plan to bring $10 per child. 
• Will we always meet at the same time/ place?
  • We are actively planning events for 2023. Right now, we are planning to have an event once a month, but the time and date are likely to be different for each month. However, we are open to feedback and would love to hear what times/dates work best for you.

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